writing
weekly writeups
Installments of before my coffee gets cold: weekly reflections on life and wellbeing, written edited, & published before my coffee gets cold.
Last weekend, I put out a post on Instagram. It had a carousel of pictures: a collection of photographs I took from a trip with some friends.
According to the Oxford dictionary, author is defined as “a writer of a book, article, or report.” You might notice that there are no signs of words like professional, money-making, or lucrative.
I can’t tell you how many years of therapy it cost me to write out that statement.
Last week, I was walking into work and listening to music — and as I often do when I’m listening to music, I was dancing a bit as I walked.
As part of my goal-setting, my coach asked me to write a letter to present-day me, from the perspective of one year from now.
Here’s that letter:
Hello, 2026. We’re two days in, and I already feel as though I’ve welcomed you with open arms. But before I entirely say goodbye to 2025, I want to take a moment to acknowledge good ol’ 2025.
Yesterday, I was perusing instagram, and I found a post much like many others I’ve seen before:
“Ten tips to make you a better writer”
Many times in my life, I’ve had what I like to call a cinematic experience. It’s those moments you look back on later and think, “If they ever made a movie about my life, that scene would for sure be in it.”
Imagine, for a moment, your long-term partner turned to you and said, “Hey, so I just got this incredible job opportunity…”
About ten years ago, I stopped arguing with people when they complimented me.
This has happened before — but usually, once I really lock in, I find something…
A few weeks ago, I opened my laptop, leg bouncing in anticipation. The feedback from my most recent short story competition had just been posted…
You ever notice how, when you ask people their values, just about everyone says “honesty”?
When it comes to wellbeing content, I tend to be very sparse with directives…
That night, I lay in bed, grieving the loss of something that mattered to me. I cried the sort of tears that fall slowly, one by one, like the beautiful women do in the movies…
Is wanting a symptom of unhappiness?
I’ve been asking myself this question since I finished my latest binge-read, The Midnight Library…
“I don’t know how to capture why,” one subscriber wrote, “but it still feels like you hold back.”
Last week, inspired by a conversation with a friend, I asked my subscribers their thoughts on the “purpose” of my newsletter. (To my delight, many of you replied!)
Mammoth, California. Sierra Nevada Mountains.
It was our first night out on the trail. We’d had an early start to the day, meaning we reached our campsite with plenty of daylight left.
This morning started like most of my mornings do: walking to the local coffee shop.
And so I did what any delightfully curious (and maybe slightly shameless) person would do — I approached them.
This week, my job wasn’t to be a data cruncher or strategist: this week, my job was to be a community facilitator. A builder of connections. The bridge between what we’re doing, and why we’re doing it.
short stories
Bite-sized fantasy fiction, usually 5000 words or less. Come immerse yourself.
first chapters
Read the first chapters of my WIP novels! Come get a taste of what’s to come :).
STATUS: EDITING
“My name is Hum. On the day I came forth from my mother’s womb, a great tremor shook the land — or so my village has told me. It was an omen, a call by the Great Mother herself. Exactly what she was trying to say, I’m not sure. If you were to ask the village Elders, each would tell you, with absolute conviction, something different…”
STATUS: MANUSCRIPT
“Hello, there. My name is Lea (pronounced like “Lee”). You can call me Doctor Hughes, if you like — but honestly, no one calls me that except for my brother, and that’s only because he is also Doctor Hughes. We’re cute like that. This might seem like an usual way to start a book, but if we’re going to spend the next sixty thousand words together, I figured you might like to know who’s at the other end of these pages…”
My goal is to increase my regular readership by 200%.