before my coffee gets cold
Inspired by the 2015 novel by Japanese author Toshikazu Kawaguchi, this series features observations, reflections, and stories told from the chairs of my favorite coffee shops. Each one is written, edited, and finalized — all before my coffee gets cold.
a letter to present-day me
As part of my goal-setting, my coach asked me to write a letter to present-day me, from the perspective of one year from now.
Here’s that letter:
“I want to be afraid, and do it anyway.”
Hello, 2026. We’re two days in, and I already feel as though I’ve welcomed you with open arms. But before I entirely say goodbye to 2025, I want to take a moment to acknowledge good ol’ 2025.
“Four tips to make you a better writer”
Yesterday, I was perusing instagram, and I found a post much like many others I’ve seen before:
“Ten tips to make you a better writer”
“how I remember it.”
Many times in my life, I’ve had what I like to call a cinematic experience. It’s those moments you look back on later and think, “If they ever made a movie about my life, that scene would for sure be in it.”
Deep breath.
From Lea’s Journal, dated 12/4/2025:
I’m supposed to write a newsletter for tomorrow.
Little LEGOs
Imagine, for a moment, your long-term partner turned to you and said, “Hey, so I just got this incredible job opportunity…”
“Thank you, I made it!”
About ten years ago, I stopped arguing with people when they complimented me.
I don’t know what to write today.
This has happened before — but usually, once I really lock in, I find something…
I make people feel things!
A few weeks ago, I opened my laptop, leg bouncing in anticipation. The feedback from my most recent short story competition had just been posted…
Sometimes it feels like people say it because they think they’re supposed to.
You ever notice how, when you ask people their values, just about everyone says “honesty”?
You should be having regular relationship check-ins.
When it comes to wellbeing content, I tend to be very sparse with directives…
A dialogue between me and the Universe
That night, I lay in bed, grieving the loss of something that mattered to me. I cried the sort of tears that fall slowly, one by one, like the beautiful women do in the movies…
You tell ‘em, Nietzsche.
Is wanting a symptom of unhappiness?
I’ve been asking myself this question since I finished my latest binge-read, The Midnight Library…
Purpose, Part II: Authorship
“I don’t know how to capture why,” one subscriber wrote, “but it still feels like you hold back.”
Purpose, Part I: Actions for Change
Last week, inspired by a conversation with a friend, I asked my subscribers their thoughts on the “purpose” of my newsletter. (To my delight, many of you replied!)
Happy birthday to me :)
Every year, on September 9th, I look around and take stock of my life.
It was nothing short of magic
Mammoth, California. Sierra Nevada Mountains.
It was our first night out on the trail. We’d had an early start to the day, meaning we reached our campsite with plenty of daylight left.